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Trying to have a baby can absolutely consume your life. Arriving at the decision to stop trying to get or stay pregnant is just as unique and personal as your decision to start trying in the first place.

You thought you had your life figured out. Being a mom and raising your kids was what you were meant for.
Now what are you supposed to do?
Who are you supposed to be?
What will your relationship with your spouse be like?

What now?

This book is the resource that I wish was available when Jaime and I reached this point in our trying to have a baby journey.

My hope is that you find some comfort, feel less alone and gain some knowledge about what to expect…when you aren’t expecting a baby as you turn the pages. You’ll hear our story, with perspectives from us both. Neither one of us are doctors or therapists. We are simply a couple that have navigated a horribly bumpy road together. We figured out how to ride the waves of grief and want to help make what happens next a little easier for anyone that wants to listen.

If you are a couple that has decided to hop off the interfertility roller coaster, I hope you will gain some knowledge about what to expect… when you aren’t expecting a baby. If you know someone who is experiencing infertility, you will learn about what your friends or loved ones might be going through and how you can consider supporting them in a more meaningful way.

The good news is that it gets easier with time. You really can have a life you love without being a parent. We are proof. And if we can do it, so can you.